How to look like a million bucks.

Because I am such a nice person and I am a big fan of spreading good news, there are 2 things that I am absolutely obsessed with and I want to share them with you. (and by you, i mean my 8 loyal followers!).

I had an engagement party this past Saturday and I wanted to do something different to my hair. I knew that left in the hands of my stylist, he would make me look like a star on a red carpet and so I had nothing to worry about. And I was right. Magic! Let me tell you a little bit about him. As every woman knows, finding the perfect hair stylist is like being in a relationship. Someone that knows what looks good without you having to say it, someone that understands your beauty needs and makes you look like the most beautiful you possible. And more importantly someone good who just "gets it". And I am lucky to have found my hair soul mate! And cheating on your stylist is a major no-no. His name is Emiliano de Pasqual and he is basically an Italian god with scissors. If you ever find yourself in NYC, head to Warren Tricomi in the iconic Plaza Hotel, and book yourself an appt ASAP. I guarantee you will NOT be disappointed. In his charming Italian accent he says "Bella, i think dat I want to do somesin sexy and messy and up." Whatever you want. I don't care. 40 minutes later....Um, can I tell you that it looked soooo fierce I didn't want to even wash it out?! It was too gorgeous and it managed to last ALL day. So Emiliano is my first little secret I want to share. Its a bit of an open relationship. (From top, 2nd and 3rd pic!)

For those that know me, I am the queen of finding a good bargain and making it look like its straight off the runway. Ive always believed that having all the money in the world can't buy you style. Style definitely comes from confidence, having a good eye, and knowing how to pull something off. That's not to say I haven't had my share of faux pas (corn rows, camel toe blue pants that I swore fit me, or my personal favorite- matching flowy skirts and tops in really bright colors. yikes!). My style has evolved with age, but also it has evolved since moving to this vibrant city! I feel like I really found the essence of my style here and I know what works for me and what is a major "don't".

On to my second secret. Target is one of those stores that I always find something good that looks expensive and well made, especially if its from the special designer collections. Here's the trick though. You have to find a Target in a not so fashionable part of town (and I'm sure there are fashionable people there and I'm not hating on anyone, but you increase your chances of scoring a good buy when you hit less popular locations.) So while visiting my grandmother at her retirement home, I hit up the local Target and found THE dress. A stunning Zac Posen violet, golden yellow metallic cocktail dress with a big bow across the chest. And pockets! It had me at pockets! It was the only size 1 left. It was so meant to be. (I also scored a Eugenia Kim fedora that is beyond cute). All for a grand total of $75.99. Yet, I looked like a million bucks! (see 1st pic on top. The handsome man to my left, is my husband, Coco. And he's priceless.)

So paired with my Zac Posen gem and my Hollywood hair courtesy of Emiliano, I hit the streets with a big smile, newly gifted Fendi purple clutch and art deco vintage earrings (courtesy of Coco) feeling all glam!

Ladies, next time you find that killer dress in the most unexpected of places for a mere penny, ROCK IT, OWN IT and HAVE FUN WITH IT! Chances are, you'll look better than the average looking girl covered in Cavalli and Gucci. That's what I call, "De la High"!

Here's to you. Here's to me.

Kathy.